your precious ones will never be forgotton  / Michele Demeo
Hi , 

I want to thank you to for visiting  my son's site as well and sharing  your beautiful poem with me . Thank you so much! it is really comforting to me .!!I am so sorry for both your loses  my heart aches for you !when these tragedy's happen like this , God really has a reason , we dont know the reason but I got to believe there is one I tell that to myself all the time  as to why my son was taken so young. 
There must be a special reason , even though I know we dont really want to hear it as times ...

 God is taking care of your your precious son & husband  and yes you will be with them again and it will be forever . I will always keep them in my prayers and I will keep you in my prayers to ! please stay strong they would want that and I know they are with you every step of the way , I truly think thats what keeps us from losing it completely ..

stay strong ,
many hugs ,michele

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I am so sorry  / Linda Mom To Jeemie Quiming (Another grieving mom )

Dear Angela

I am so sorry for the loss of all your loved ones in such a short time. I lost my son and nephew 3 months apart. I feel your pain. What you are enduring is the ultimate. I can not even imagine loosing my son and husband at the same time. I did loose my first husband 20 years ago 2 weeks after Jeremie was born. My heart and prayers go out to you. 
I pray for God to give us all the strength we need to make it through one of lifes toughest tests. I want to thank you so much for your kind words and the beautiful graphics on Jeremie's site. 
Also thank you for sharing Jonathan and Ronald and your dad with us. 
Stay strong and know that our Angels are only a whisper away and they are watching over us everyday.
Sending you lots of love and hugs Angela. Just know that we love you and we are all here to help each other throught this.

Love and Hugs always
xoxoxoxo
Linda (Jeremie Quiming's mom)

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Looking at Pics.  / Crystal &. Jim Hill ((loving Friend) )
Hey my little buddy, came down to Jackson, giving your mom pics of the service, your Mom & Sister's miss you very much; just the same as all of us do you were like a nephew you Jim & I we will never forget the funny stuff you used to do.
your laughter; jokes; and just your plain kindness will always bbe remembered, R.I.P. Jonathan I hope your enjoying heaven along with your Dad. Love & miss you always. Close

Happy St. Patrick's Day!  / Dianne/Mom Of Angel Nicholas White

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From the broken heart of a mother!  / Tammy McCarty
Mrs. Allen, 
First let me say how sorry I am about your great loss. To lose a husband and a son at the same time just has to be unbearable. My heart goes out to you. Just a few weeks after you lost your son, I lost mine on Ch&D road in a car accident.  Until you have been there you truly do not know how to express the feelings of complete helplessness and grief. My heart and life will never be the same again. If I could have just one more hug, tell him one more time to be careful, tell him how proud I am of him, but Iknow that I will meet him again someday in heaven. I did not know your son but I know I would have been truly blessed if I had. Your page has helped me and as I sit and cry while I read the poems and things you have left, I know that somewhere there is a light at the end of this oh so dark tunnel I am in right now. I know that they are up in Heaven waiting for us and saying "Mom just keep going on each day and soon we will be together never to say those words 'goodbye' again". 
I pray that you will be strengthened each day and if there is anything I can do to help you please let me know.
Thank you so much,
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Loving mother  / Courtney (Passerby)
Your son's site really touched my heart, I can only imagine how hard this has to be for you to loose two people so close to you. I am a mother of a little 14 month old baby, and I think it would just about kill me to see anything happen to him, I see that you loved your son DEARLY. Close

I am so sorry Jonathan is a very Handsome Angel  / Rose McPhee Leo's Mom
I want to send my condolences to you I know your pain too well, my 16 year old Son will be gone one year on the 21 of this month, the emptyness you feel is real, I often hear my Son in my head he's always saying oh mom I'm ok really but I'm worried about you.
  Jonathan is with so many new Angel friends; he's surrounded by all his family but he is also with you Mom he's only a whisper away.
Again I am so sorry and if you every need to chat Ileft my email
Rose McPhee
Leo's Mom
www.leo-mcphee.memroy-of.com

for mom !
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I Miss You Bubby  / Summer Allen (Sister)
I miss and love you so much Bubby! Mommy's got to have surgery this friday. I don't thank she want's me there which I should be and I wan't to be but I might have to call off work and I might loose my job. But you know what mommy is more important than my job. I can find another job. I miss you guys so much tell everybody that I said hi and that I love and miss them. {I LOVE & MISS YOU DADDY AND PAPAW DALE SO MUCH.}



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SEXY BEAST MY BEST FRIEND=]  / Danielle Royster (Best friend )
hey=] just thinking of you sexy  beast and how much you are missed by me and my friends you were the best ever I loved playing ball with you in the street; hitting Jenelle in the back that was funny just wanted to say you were like a Brother to me and I still think of you that way I love you and miss you alot=]
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My heart and prayers are with you and your family  / Linda Caggianiello (passerby)

Angela,

I am so sorry for the loss of your husband and son.  I can't even imagine what your going through.  It feels as if though my life has ended because of the loss of my husband.  The only thing keeping me alive are my children.  My deepest sympathy goes out to you.

Please stay strong and know your husband and son are together.  Rest assure that they have each other.

My prayers will be with you always,

Linda

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92 DAYS!!  / Angela Allen (Mother)


                                                              

92 Days today since I have been able to hold you and give you a hug or to hear your voice say I love you Mom; your laughter;     and the jokes you told. I just got back from the grave-I hope you was able to hear me tell you I love you and that I was sorry for    not being there to say farewell, and even more sorry I could not    protect you! when you were younger and fell down I'd pick you up or your Dad and we would kiss your boobo and make it all better   this time Mom could not make it better, {Death stole you away,     But Jesus gave you eternal life...} to this day I still ask God why?  
Why did he have to take you home so early you had so much    ahead of you. Your Graduation; marriage; children of your own; a  career; now I won't get to see you do any of that.  I keep              wondering what your last thoughts were? Do you Know how         much Mom loves you? Jonathan I was really trying to get back to   you & your Dad as quickly as I could, I should have never went       out of town that day.                                                                      
Oh My Son you & your Dad was suppose to come home that day & tell me about the buck that got away. instead of getting easier      the days are getting harder I keep waiting for you to come thur     that door. but you never will be around us physically again, I          know though you are here everyday in spirit, and in my heart &      soul forever. I will always keep your memory alive thur this site      and I will keep your resting place looking great. I love you my Son, give your Dad a hug for me, & your Papaw's & Mamaw's                 too.                                                                                                  
                  LOVE ALWAYS & FOREVER                                             
                             MOM                                                                    
                                                            
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Heartfelt Condolences  / Tanya In Virginia (Passer by )

My words can not express how extremely heavy my heart feels for you!! To lose a child would have to be the worst pain possible, but  to have such a tremendous loss of child and spouse!! My heart aches for you deeply. All I can offer is something you have probably heard a thousand times...... KEEP YOUR FAITH AND YOU WILL SEE THEM AGAIN! I will not soon forget your family... for you lost your precious loved ones on my birthday. Know that ya'll are in the prayers of people you don't even know. Rely on God for strength and He will be there for you and bless you. I am so so sorry.  

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So sorry for your unbelievable loss  / Laurie Dreier (another grieving mom )
Angela,  Thank you for visiting Jake's site and leaving such a beautiful message and graphic!  We are so touched and comfoted by it.  I visited here and I just can't find the words to say how my heart aches for you and your family and all the friends that are hurting so much!  I just can't imagine going through two losses at once!  I go in my son's room, too, just to touch and smell his things. 

I have sat and looked at your pictures here and I must say that it is easy to see from his smile and his eyes that your son is such a joy to know!  I can almost hear him laughing!  I bet Jonathan and my son have got to know each other now. Jake always wanted to go hunting, but his dad never took him, so I bet Ron and Jonathan have invited Jake along with them!  Your family looks like the kind of folks we would have so much fun knowing!  I am the one honored to visit your sites and get to know your loved ones a little.  May God bring you peace.
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MISSING YOU MORE & MORE  / Angela Allen (Mother)
Hey, My Boy I'm having a really bad day went in your room and had a really hard cry; I yelled and ask God why?  It's soon going to be 3 months since You and your Dad left us and I still find myself waiting for you to come through the door, or the phone to ring to tell me you two will be here soon, my heart is so broken my Son.  I miss you more and more everyday .But! I want you to know that I'm trying to be strong and holding on to the fact that someday I'll be able to see both of you again;≈ things isn't very good down here the water's been frozen for 2 weeks & when it did un-thraw for a day we could not use it because the lines busted and your Mother here don't know how to fix it, no money for a plumber and lets not forget the vechiles won't start (except your sister's) your Grandma & Brandi isn't doing we'll either, it seems like everything is going wrong just to reminds us more & more that My Wonderful Guys aren't here.  You and Your Dad was always here to make things right, now your gone, (IT'S NOT FAIR) ♦I know they say God has a plan for everything but right now Mom's not seeing it!!!♦  {I know that You are still here just in a different way for in my Heart you will always remain and your also a part of me a part that know one can take away}

                       Until we meet again my Son:
                              Love Always Mom
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MY FRIENDS, MY FAMILY  / (. ). (loving Friend )


My Friends, My Family

The things I heard that horrible day
I have no words to describe, nothing to say

Tears just kept coming, they would not stop
On the road, the scene was unbearable to watch

My Best Friend, my family, out of sight
thier not gone, but with God in heaven after thier safe flight

I miss them so much, no words can explain
Nothing can describe this terrible pain

A missing part of me will there always be
Without my hero's, my best friend's here to comfort me

I keep reminding myself God has a plan for everyone
But why Keith and Jonathan, the helpful ones

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MY GREAT FRIEND  / Jeffery Seitz (Best Friend )
You were a friend to many
Enemies you had not any
You made every ones day brighter
You could make even a long boring day much lighter

You were considerate and kind
Not an easy trait to find
Not a soul could replace
The smile you brought to each face

There are so many things I would like to say
The biggest is how could this happen this way
What happened to you and your Dad
Should not have happened to such a nice lad

As the tears stream down my face
I know that you are in a better place
You are in Gods arms now
But this to you I will vow

You will be missed by one and all
As we walk down the streets you use to walk
The pain we hope will lessen
As we deal with this life lesson

You will always be in our heart
As life without you we must start
You will forever be remembered as great friend 
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Valentine Wish  / Dianne/Mom Of Angel Nicholas White

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I love & miss u bubby  / Summer Allen (Sister)

 It hurts so bad bubby that u, daddy and papaw dale is not here this Valentines Day. I want you to now how much I love u and how much I miss u. I think of u all the time of all the stuff we did together, I think of when we went up town and drove around and made fun of people butts. And u put that song on I like big butts it was so funny. And I remember that time out at the paper office I had my music up loud and u put your music on and mine was still loud than yours was and u left to go home and put speaker in your jimmy and then u came back out to the paper office and I was laughing at u. that was the good old times. I wish we could have one more time like that together again just one more time if I could not have u guys back. I wish I could have one more time with daddy & papaw dale to I miss all of u guys picking on me it hurts so bad that it stop all at once. I love u guys so much I am always thinking of u guys tell daddy, papaw and the rest of are family up there that I love them so much I am sending you one last kiss ok bubby I want you to now that I love you so much.

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I love u  / Summer Allen (Sister)

 My heart is broken without u here. I don't know how to go on without u, daddy & papaw dale. I just want to tell u I love & miss u so much. I miss joking around with u & most of all I miss your Moma jokes. 
   

I am sending u my love & a kiss I love u so much bubby. Love your Sister Summer

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Happy Valentine Day  / Arlene Allen
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