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FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO VISIT THIS SITE: PLEASE SCROLL DOWN AND LOOK AT THE NEW PICTURES I WILL BE UPDATING THE SITE FROM TIME TO TIME WITH EACH PASSING HOLIDAY OR EVENT FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO LIGHT CANDLES & PAY TRIBUTE TO OUR LOVED ONE IT IS GREATLY APPRECIATED FOR IT BRINGS A LIGHT TO OUR HEART AGAIN THANK YOU  GOD BLESS!!!  










This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Jonathan Robert Allen who was born in Ohio on January 29, 1988 and passed away on November 27, 2006 at the age of 18. We will remember him forever.  His love & his laughter as well as the joy he brought to all those around Him.
                          
     Jonathan left out with his Father to go hunting on that November day and he never got to return home.  He was killed along with his Father in an automobile crash that was not their fault. Jonathan was a Senior in Jackson High School,but also went to Buckeye Hills Career Center in there Building Trades Course, and was looking forward to Graduation, he worked for the Jackson County Times Journal and was very proud to be a part of that extended Family.  He made everyone laugh, you never seen a frown on his face.  Jonathan was a Great Son; Brother; Grandson; Nephew; & Cousin.


                                








        



Remember Me

Remember me when flowers bloom
Early in the spring
Remember me on sunny days
In the fun that summer brings

Remember me in the fall
As you walk through the leaves of gold
And in the wintertime-remember me
In the stories that are told

But most of all remember
each day-right from the start
I will be forever near
For I live within your heart

THIS IS YOUR NEPHEW, NATHANIEL KEITH ROBERT ALLEN BORN JUNE 19, 2008 @ 12:12pm. YOU WOULD BE SO PROUD OF HIM, AND YOU WOULD HAVE HIM SPOILED TOO. KEEP WATCHING OVER HIM TO KEEP HIM SAFE LOTS OF LOVE SENT TO YOU XOXO

SON, GIVE YOUR FATHER A BIG HUG FROM ME & TELL HIM I SAID HAPPY FATHERS DAY, I MISS YOU SO MUCH SON, THINGS JUST ARE NOT THE SAME HERE WITH OUT YOU, OF COURSE THEY COULD NOT BE..YOU BROUGHT SO MUCH JOY TO MY LIFE, AS WELL AS LOTS OF JOY TO OTHERS, THAT COULD NEVER BE REPLACED...SEND DOWNS SOME OF YOUR HUGS I SURE COULD USE THEM..{LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER, MOM}

BROTHER, WE MISS YOU SO MUCH DOWN HERE YOUR JOKES AND YOUR LAUGHTER NO-ONE CAN REPLACE THAT...YOU & DAD WAS ONE OF A KIND, BUB, TELL OUR DAD WE SAID HAPPY FATHERS DAY AND GIVE HIM A HUG FROM US..{LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER, SUMMER & JENELLE}

 









This Valentine is not your ordinary kind,
It's filled with love and blessing's inside;
but! mine has to be sent on the wings of a dove...
Sent with All My Love...
you see it's destination is Heaven above.

It's not being sent to my family still here,
For they are with me each day of the year;
It's being sent to my Son...
who was taken from earth way to soon,
Who is now in the Heavens with the stars and the moon.

The message is the same, as if you were here,
"I LOVE YOU... precious Son of mine;
my love is still deeper than the ocean is blue,
and it's sent with HUGS and KISSES....
from Me to You."

"I know your still with me each and every day,
you listen as I talk to you...and you hear what I say
For that is one thing that tragedy could not do...
You'll always be a part of me,
and me a part of you."

I know you are in the best of care,
But! for us let on earth... it's hard to bear,
could you put in a request from us left behind...
For God to send some knowledge...
so that we will all know why?

So no other family has to Endure our pain...
Our lives without you will never be the same;
When I get lonely I will look to the sky...
and know that the light is your smile shining so bright.

Happy Valentines Day, Son of mine...
I Miss You so much, I know you know ,
how many lives that you touched;
You'll always be mine...I Love you with all my heart,
I know we will be together again... and then we'll never part.

So you see my Son, the meaning is still the same...
The method of delivery only had to change,
Because!
It's being sent to you by a little white dove... on the wings of love.







WE LOVE & MISS YOU SO MUCH BUBBY; WISHING YOU WERE HERE!  LOVE ALWAYS & FOREVER - JENELLE & SUMMER....








JONATHAN, YOUR  GRANDMOTHER'S MISS YOU SO MUCH; YOU BRIGHTEN THEIR DAY WITH YOUR LAUGHTER, YOUR LOVED BY BOTH; SEND DOWN SOME SIGNS TO WATCH OVER THEM.. {HAPPY VALENTINES DAY}
















THIS IS THE SECOND CHRISTMAS WITHOUT YOU AND IT FEELS LIKE THE FRIST. MY SON, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, I MISS YOU COMING IN AND TELLING ME THAT YOU NEED THINGS, I EVEN MISS YOU AND YOUR SISTER'S FIGHTING WITH EACHOTHER, AS WELL AS THE JOKES YOU USE TO PLAY ON EVERYONE... THEY KEPT LAUGHTER IN THIS HOUSE..
JONATHAN, I MISS OUR TALKS; YOUR HUGS; YOUR VOICE...
AND THE MOVIES YOU WANTED MOM TO WATCH, I WOULD THINK THEY WERE NOT SO FUNNY, BUT YOU WOULD LAUGH & LAUGH...IT'S LIKE I CAN ALMOST HERE YOUR LAUGHTER NOW...
MY PRECIOUS SON, HOW AM I SUPPOSE TO DO THIS?
HOW CAN I LIVE WITHOUT YOU AND YOUR FATHER HERE?
PLEASE SEND DOWN SOME SIGN'S TO LET MOM KNOW THAT YOU ARE STILL AROUND...YOU WILL STAY ALIVE FOREVER IN MY HEART, YOU LIVE BECAUSE I LIVE..I WILL NOT LET YOUR MEMORY DIE...
LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER:
YOUR MOTHER
 







MY FATHER AND MOTHER-
{MY DAD'S WITH ME}









WE LOVE AND MISS YOU BUBBY, SIS AND i MISS YOUR LAUGHTER AND YOUR JOKES THAT YOU AND DADDY BROUGHT TO THIS HOUSE..SEND DOWN SOME HUGS..WE SURE COULD USE THEM...
WITH ALL OUR LOVE; JENELLE & SUMMER










IT'S BEEN 1 YEAR TODAY SON SINCE YOU WERE RIPPED FROM MY LIFE TO GO TO YOUR ETERNAL HOME; TO BE WITH YOUR FATHER, AND GRANDPARENTS; AND I WONDER IF YOU WERE WITH YOUR FATHER AT THOSE PEARLY GATES TO WECLOME PAPAW DALE HOME WHEN HE CAME HOME? THIS HAS BEEN A VERY HARD YEAR SON, FULL OF WHAT IF'S AND BLAMING MYSELF FOR LETTING YOU GO THAT DAY, AND FOR NOT MAKING IT BACK HERE TO SAY GOOD-BYE.. NOT BEING ABLE TO HEAR YOUR VOICE ANYMORE AND YOUR I LOVE YOU MOM; FEELING YOU COME AND GIVE ME A HUG JUST TO CHEER ME UP WHEN I WAS DOWN; OR HEARING YOUR JOKES THAT YOU AND YOUR FATHER WAS OH SO GOOD AT; THINGS ARE STILL SO PAINFUL, ONE THING IS FORSUR SON, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN AND YOU WILL LIVE IN MY HEART FOR EVER, JUST KNOW THAT MOM WILL SEE YOU AGAIN. SENDING YOU LOTS OF LOVE AS WELL AS LOTS OF XOXOXOXOXO...

BELOW IS A COPY OF THE NEWS PAPER CLIPPING OF THE BALLOON/CANDLE LIGHTING CEREMONY THAT WAS HELD FOR YOU THREE..












































I Hear Each Tear

My Mom does not know I am watching her
but I'm watching her just the same.
and I hear each tear fall on her face,
at the mention of my name.

She says it sounds like music to her ears,
and can be heard over a crowd.
Oh, I hear each tear fall on her face,
when my name is said aloud.

I watch her stumble through each day,
as she wishes the day would end.
And I hear each tear fall on her face,
as she talks of me with her friends.

But there are few who truly understand.
Oh this I've heard her proclaim.
And I hear each tear fall on her face.
Will my Mom ever be the same?

I know that her smile can light up a sky,
but I don't see that smile today.
But I hear each tear fall on her face,
her blue skies have turned to gray.

I send to her my warmest hug
with the rays of the morning sun.
Then I won't hear a tear fall on her face,
for I shall erase them one-by-one.

My mom does not know I am watching her,
but I'm watching her just the same.
And if I hear a tear fall on her face,
I'll just softly whisper her name.




  









STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN BOUND

IN MY
DREAMS AT NIGHT
I CLIMB THE STAIRWAY
              TO HEAVEN IN MY SLEEP               
THE STAIRWAY TAKES ME
HIGHER & HIGHER
BEYOND THE CLOUDS
WHEN I ARRIVE
I PASS THROUGH
THE PEARLY WHITE GATES ON MY WAY INTO HEAVEN
IT’S SO PEACEFUL
AND BEAUTIFUL IN HEAVEN
I LOOK ON MY BACK
REALIZING I AM AN ANGEL
I HAVE WINGS I CAN FLY
ANY WHERE IN HEAVEN AND BEYOND 



                  



(My Loving Son)

My Loving Son
My Heart aches like frostbite from a
Cold, wet, dark winter night
He was killed in a head on collision
Nobody really knows how or why
My Loving Son
Tears of pain just keep flowing like
The pouring rain in a thunderstorm
No more 'I Love You, Mom'
No phone calls
No Visits, No Hugs
My Loving Son
I know He now has Wings
And His Halo is Gold...
He is Smiling and Happy
Like a Soft love Song
No Pain No Hurt,
Oh How I Miss
My Loving Son 



                                                        
                                                                    
  
A child is now at rest
For a safer place he remains
A world of goodness and beauty
A world without worry or pain.

No fear will he encounter
For a better place he'll be
A place where the sick are healed
And the blinded eyes can see.

Our world has forever changed
Our lives are not the same
But close within our hearts
His precious face remains.

We give to him our tears
And our prayers we send above
We cherish all the memories
Filled with happiness and love.

he'll have someone to depend on
A helping hand is there to lend
For the Father shall be watching
And in heaven, he'll have a friend 
                                   





























JONNATHAN; YOUR GRANDMA ALLEN WANTED YOU TO HAVE THIS;
YOU ARE MISSED SO VERY MUCH, BUT WE KNOW THAT YOU
ARE WATCHING OVER US:
SENDING ALL OF OUR LOVE....


















Jonathan I love you and Miss you so much down here just know that
I will do my best to keep the legacy of love and kindness that you left going strong.......{The LOVE is what you take with you!!!}
 keep me a spot up there with You and your Father when God calls me to my eternal home I will meet you both up on that beautiful shore and what a Joyous Day that will be......
I know what people say is true that life has to go on; But! how??
Jonathan You; Your Sister's & Your Father were the reason I got up 
everyday:- living without you two is an Emotional rollercoaster!
Your Mother knows that I'm not the only person in this world going thur this horriable pain and yet there are days that it fills like I am.  After you have had nothing but wonderful men in your life to share with how is a person suppose to live their everday life without them??? 
 FOR YOU & YOUR FATHER WHO IS PATIENTLY AWAITING FOR US!
 UNTIL OUR  FAMILY CHAIN LINKS AGAIN 
I'LL TRY........
I only hope that you seen how many lives you both touched it was
amazing; the kind words that was said about you both will never be forgotten {YOU BOTH TOUCHED SO MANY LIVES THAT WE WERE NOT EVEN AWARE OF:} You both had it, {UNCONDITIONAL LOVE;} {UNCONDITIONAL FORGIVENESS;}you realized it wasn't about you it was about GOD'S People!!!!
 





You can shed tears that they are gone,
or you can smile because they have lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that they will come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all that they left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see them,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember them only that they are gone,
or you can cherish thier memories and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what they would want;
smile, open your eyes, love and go on...>>>




I BET YOU ARE RUNNING WITH THE DEERS, YOU HAVE ALWAYS
BEEN AMAZED WITH THEM, I WILL KEEP ON COLLECTING THEM FOR YOU ROOM; KEEPING YOUR MEMORY ALIVE FOREVER....

      



















         {MY SON  I LOVE  YOU  FOREVER AND A  DAY}






{WE LOVE YOU & MISS YOU BUBBY FOREVER}
                 



      









This is what the Girls & I miss the most the Laughter we all had together, We were such a happy Family of course we had our ups & downs like all Familes do But, {We were  Happy} Loving & Missing You Both so very much Thanks for being who you both were Full of Love, Caring, & Kindness......


THIS WAS ONE OF JONATHAN'S FAVORITE CHARTERS GROWING UP
 
 


OTHER FAMLY MEMBERS THATS THERE WITH JONATHAN......... 


{Father}RONALD KEITH ALLEN--{my1loverka.memory-of.com}

{Grandfather}RODNEY DALE HULL--{rodney-dale-hull.memory-of.com}


I would like to give thanks to {Dianne White}~Mother of Nicholas White and {Kathie Raley}& my youngest daughter{Jenelle} for some of the nice picture on this site,
The Picture's are wonderful and they are appreciated:
GOD BLESS:
             







 





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Family Tree
Tributes and Condolences
Update on the Family   / Angela Allen (Mother)
Hello my Son, I Love and Miss you with all my heart  I'm sorry it has been awhile since I've wrote a tribute butthings have been so messed up around here...I wish you and your Father were still here cause if you were I know that you would not a...  Continue >>
We Remember Them   / Karen Hall (Kassie Hall's Mom )
In the rising of the sun and its going down,
We remember them

In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter,
We remember them

In the opening of the buds and in the rebrith of spring,
We remember them ...  Continue >>
LOVED AND MISSED!!!!   / SUMMER ALLEN (SISTER)
HEY BUBBY I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH. IT IS STILL SO HARD WITHOUT YOU HERE, I AM JUST TAKING IT DAY BY DAY. YOU ARE GOING TO BE AN UNCLE HERE REAL SOON. BUT YOU ALREADY ARE AN UNCLE BUT NOT BY BLOOD, BUT IT WOULD NOT M...  Continue >>
Stoppin by to chat   / Angela Allen (Mother)
I want you to know son that my missing you never stops, I miss hearing your Jokes and your laughter, I miss being able to give you a hug, and just hearing you voice everyday... My life down hear has pretty much stopped, I've joined the Family life te...  Continue >>
PRECIOUS JONATHAN,   / ROSE GRMA TO ANGEL BRITTANY SYFERT
HERE ARE TWO THOUGHTS TO RMEMBER JONATHAN WHATEVER THE DAY MAY BE, I'LL ALWAYS BE WISHING YOU AND YOUR FAMILY PEACE AND COMFORT, AND YOU'LL ALWAYS BE SPECIAL TO ME.
SENDING LOVE TO JONATHAN AND HIS FAMILY,  / ROSE GRMA TO ANGEL BRITTANY SYFERT     Read >>
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JONATHAN  / Bridget Dtr Of Allan R. Peacock (united by angels )    Read >>
Happy Birthday Jonathan!  / Carol Pizzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )    Read >>
A MOMENT WITH YOU AT CHRISTMAS......  / Angela Allen (MOTHER)    Read >>
Christmas with Jesus  / Heidi Laws (Angel Evan's Mom )    Read >>
PRECIOUS ANGEL'S JONATHAN & KEITH, AND ALL YOUR FAMILY  / ROSE GRMA TO ANGEL BRITTANY SYFERT     Read >>
missing you  / Nancy Waters (aunt)    Read >>
Thinking of You  / Jenny Tavendale Mum To Ross     Read >>
Thinking Of You  / Janeane Bricker (Angel Mom )    Read >>
Thinking of you and your mom  / Jo-Ann Pacenta Lauren's Mom (Connected by angels )    Read >>
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His legacy
His Legacy- HELPING, LAUGHING, CARING  

            
        
Jonathan Robert Allen was my only son,  I am thankful to God though for sending him to me.  He was a very special boy, and a joy to my heart, in his short 18 years on this earth he touched more lives and helped more people than some do who is left here and able to grow old, his laughter, joy, and giving to others will be carried out; through his sister's and I.  And the rest of his family, so what he started in his short life with us will not be forgotten!  Our family chain is broken here on this earth, but! as God calls each of us home our chain will link again. 

Our Guardian Angel Now  

Jonathan you and your Dad I'm sure have earned your wings, the both of you showerd this world with  nothing but Kindness, Love, Laughter, & Joy to all.  Helping others was only a few of your past times that you both had.
So I can see the Lord Above Saying this as you entered:

                           "AND I TOO WILL BE KIND TO YOU,
                          BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU HAVE DONE."
                                     (II Samuel 2:6 (tlb)




ETERNAL LOVE:


   ETERNAL  LIFE:                                                        

WISH LIST -LOVE HIS MOTHER----JONATHAN MY SON IT'S NOW BEEN 3-MONTHS{MISSING U LIKE IT YESTERDAY}  
 
Grieving Parents Wish List

I wish my child hadn't died. I wish I had him back.

I wish you wouldn't be afraid to speak my child's name. My child
lived and was very important to me. I need to hear that he was
important to you also.

If I cry and get emotional when you talk about my child, I wish you
knew that it isn't because you have hurt me. My child's death is the cause of my tears. You have talked about my child and you have
allowed me to share my grief. I thank you for both.

Being a bereaved parent is not contagious, so I wish you wouldn't
shy away from me. I need you now more than ever.


I need diversions, so I do want to hear about you, but I also want
you to hear about me. I might be sad and I might cry, but I wish you would let me talk about my child; my favorite topic of the day.

I know that you think of and pray for me often. I also know that my child's death pains you too. I wish you would let me know these things through a phone call, a card or note, or a real big hug.

I wish you wouldn't expect my grief to be over. These first years
are traumatic for me, but I wish you could understand that my grief will never be over. {I will suffer the death of my child until the day I die.}

I am working hard in my recovery, but I wish you could understand
that I will never fully recover. I will always miss my child and I
will always grieve that he is gone.


I wish you wouldn't expect me "not to think about it" or "be
happy". Neither will happen for a very long time, so don't frustrate
yourself.

I don't want to have a "Pity party", but I do wish you would let me
grieve. I must hurt before I can heal.

{I wish you understood how my life has shattered. I know it is
miserable for you to be around me when I'm feeling miserable. Please be as patient with me as I am with you.}


When I say, "I'm doing okay", I wish you could understand that I
don't "feel" okay and that I struggle daily.


I wish you knew that all of the grief reactions I'm having are very
normal. Depression, anger, hopelessness and overwhelming sadness are all to be expected. So please excuse me when I'm quiet and withdrawn or irritable and cranky.

Your advice to "take it one day at a time" is excellent advice.
However, a day is too much and too fast for me right now. I wish you could understand that I'm doing good to handle an hour at a time. 

Please excuse me if I seem rude, certainly not my intent. Sometimes the world around me goes too fast and I need to get off. When I walk away, I wish you would let me find a quiet place to spend time alone.

I wish you understood that grief changes people. When my child died, a big part of me died with him. I am not the same person I was before my child died and I will never be that person again.

I wish very much that you could understand ~ understand my loss and my grief.
But....
I pray daily that you will never understand
JONATHAN'S HEAVEN  

                      


Jonathan loved hunting his deers; Him and his Father would go out every year and they would tease me about bringing home a deer, knowing that I don't like to eat deer meat they would trick me all the time. one time they made hamberger and told me it came from the store, of course I ate it and after I was done then they told me it was deer meat.
My guys was always playing some type of trick on me.or the rest of their family and friends they were truly one of a kind, (Jesus broke the mold when he created them.)
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